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Bereavement Resources

We have a range of resources and books that you might find helpful. From books to help with loss to storybooks to help children understand, you are welcome to borrow from our lending library.

Talking to children about death

This guide from The STILL Method provides helpful, practical advice on how to talk to your child about the death of a loved one. It offers simple guidance on using honest, age-appropriate language, answering difficult questions, and supporting children through their grief in a reassuring and compassionate way.

Advice for parents and carers when talking to children and young people about death

Supporting young people through grief

Need to speak to a professional?

Although speaking to your family, friends, and other heart families can help greatly, we have a private and confidential counselling service free to heart families in Northern Ireland should you want to speak to a professional counsellor.

Books for adults

If you would like to borrow a book, email [email protected] or phone 02890 312228.

Barbara D. Rosof

Explores the profound grief of losing a child and provides practical guidance for families to navigate their healing journey while preserving their emotional well-being and relationships.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view

Gary Roe

A compassionate guide offering understanding and practical advice to help parents navigate the overwhelming pain of losing a child.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Elizabeth Kubler Ross and David Kessler

A profound exploration of grief through the lens of the five stages, offering insight and comfort to those mourning a loss.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Ellen Mitchell

Nine bereaved mothers candidly share their journeys of grief and resilience to offer hope and understanding to others facing similar loss

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Books for children

If you would like to borrow a book, email [email protected] or phone 02890 312228.

Trevor Romain

A thoughtful guide addressing children’s questions about death, offering clarity, reassurance, and guidance on saying goodbye.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view

Patrice Karst

A heartfelt story that reminds children and adults they are always connected to loved ones by an unbreakable string of love.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Rebecca Elliott

Toby supports his brave sister Clemmie during her hospital visits, and together they confront their fears with love and courage.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Rebecca Elliott

Toby shares his perspective on his sister Clemmie’s additional needs, celebrating her uniqueness with warmth and acceptance.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Joslynn Jarrett-Skelton

A story of friendship and resilience as Charlie and Lawson bond over their shared journey of living with special hearts.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Alan Durant

Fox’s friends find meaningful ways to cope with grief and cherish his memory after his passing.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Diana Crossley

An interactive book that helps children process grief and honour the memories of a loved one through creative activities.

This book is available pre-loved. Click here to view.

Heart Warrior Walk

Our gatherings offer opportunities for families to come together and share their experiences.